How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 02:07
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What I need from you?
What pet would you strongly not recommend?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Do not set goals—set systems.
What are some mind-blowing facts about Michael Jackson?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What's the hardest part about marriage that no one ever talks about?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Which city should one visit between Nice and Cannes? Why?
Does not procrastinate.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Do all therapists specialize in one specific type of therapy, or are they trained in multiple types?
Ask yourself:
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Making more friends is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Procrastinates a lot.
As a guy, how do you know you if you are considered attractive?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What is an easy way to get your driver's license?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Why did Trump call Biden and Schumer Palestinians?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Are there any guys, crossdressers, or transgender girls here who wear tampons?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
That's it for today.